Usually we are in a stalemate
with our world: 'Is he going to say he is sorry to me first, or am I going to
apologize to him first?' But in becoming a bodhisattva we break that barrier: we
do not wait for the other person to make the first move; we have decided to do
- Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche,
"The Bodhisattva Vow: Eight Views"